“I’m putting you on ignore!”

The time for thinkers has come. Truth, independent of doctrines and time-honored systems, knocks at the portal of humanity.- Mary Baker Eddy

So there’s this tool you can use on the Amazon discussion forums that will allow you to “ignore the trolls” – you click this button and their posts go into hiding under a sign that says “You are ignoring this customer’s posts.” I myself am too curious to know what everyone else is saying to have much success using this tool, but those folks who aren’t as nosy as me sometimes use this device as a way to protect themselves from personalities they find disturbing for whatever reason.

Of course, there are folks who cannot resist letting the people they have on ignore know they have them on ignore (which sort of defeats the whole purpose, right?) – and then they need to let everyone ELSE know they’ve got these folks on ignore, too – so often an announcement is made to the person who is being put on ignore – an announcement everyone else can see, too: “I’m putting you on ignore!”

And so the fun continues. “Oh yeah?! Well, I put you on ignore first – so there!” “Well, if you put me on ignore how can you see my posts, eh?” “I unignored you so I could see your post telling me you’re ignoring me – and how can you see MY post if you’re ignoring me?!” And so on. Yeah. Good times. Good times.

But I recently found a thread devoted to ignoring “trolls” that gave me some pause for contemplation. Two of the posters that the people on this thread were considering “ignoring” were actually people of education (both had doctors degrees) and intelligence – people who put some thought into their posts. One of these posters identifies himself as an atheist, the other as a Christian – and, although I don’t always agree with them, I usually find something in their contributions to the forums that makes me dig deeper into my own beliefs and thoughts about God and life. Their posts make me think… which… I don’t know… but I’ve always considered that a GOOD thing, right?

So I wrote this response:

Wow. I have now read through this thread. It has been an eye-opener, for sure.

I see some of us are debating whether to put those big bad trolls H. and E. on ignore. And I say, right on! I think it’s best to always ignore intelligent, educated posters – like H. and E. – who might actually make us question our own stereotypes and biases and points of view. I mean, who really wants to spend any time in SELF-reflection when we can better spend our time telling OTHER people how to think, believe, and live, right? So I think we should all scurry off to our separate little groups, fortify our barriers, unite against people who don’t think like we do about stuff, find our scapegoats for every ill that has ever befallen the planet (this could be theists or atheists or Jews or Muslims or Christians or Democrats or Republicans or Ralph Nader, depending on one’s perspective), and ignore the hell out of them. Let’s make sure they know we’re ignoring the hell out of them, too. And let everyone else know we’re ignoring the hell out of them. And let’s gossip about them. Ooh! Ooh! Does life get any more fun than that?!! 🙂

Yeah. I know. I am such a troll.

And, after a little more “discussion” about “group-think” – the need the people on this thread seemed to have to come to a consensus about who to ignore, as opposed to deciding as independent, individuals thinkers which posters are helpful, and which aren’t, I finally was the recipient of the words: “I’m putting you on ignore!”  🙂

Weirdly, this did not have the effect the other poster was probably hoping it would have on me. I found myself smirking. Not so’s she could see – but, yeah, in the privacy of my own home I was smirking. Being put on ignore by a poster simply because I questioned her stereotypes proved what I’d long suspected: We tend to ignore those people who threaten our own comfortable view of the world – we tend to ignore voices that might force us to take stock of ourselves and… yeeks!… change the way we look at stuff. And so we band together with like-minded people – isolate ourselves and insulate ourselves from differing perspectives – and find a television “news” station or other “news” source that caters to our own little conceits, and our stereotypes of others.

It’s all so silly, ain’t it?

How are we ever going to learn and progress if we shut ourselves off from others who challenge the way we look at things?

seagull and cormorant

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4 thoughts on ““I’m putting you on ignore!”

  1. Damn straight Karen! Do you think it’s easy getting this smart? This sure of yourself? It takes a lot of work and self talk to get to the place where you know it all and are able to share with others. You don’t have time for those who just don’t want to learn. So if you don’t have enough sense to want to join this community of like minded people who just happen to be absolutely right about absolutely everything, well……I’m putting you on ignore.

    Take that!

  2. One of the most amazing things that I have observed is how some people of religion ignore other’s ideas. The ideas can even come from friends who have a different slant on traditional ideas.

    Here is an example from my experience that I write about in my book. I told a friend about my interest in the Spindrift experiments of prayer. He said in effect, “Bill. That sounds like some pretty interesting stuff, but you should work that out in therapy first.”

    • Hahhahhahar! Ohmygosh. Yeah. It sometimes seems like the gulf between one way of seeing the world, and another way of seeing it, is so vast we’ll never be able to get across it to understanding each other, doesn’t it? But I had a healing in my thought about this on Wednesday night – one of the hymns I chose was “Home is the Consciousness of Good” and there’s a line in there that says: “No child can ever stray beyond the compass of infinitude.” As I sang that line I was reminded that ALL of God’s children – friends, family, neighbors, and those who “put us on ignore” on a discussion forum – are living within the consciousness of Love, loved by Love, feeling and expressing Love. No one is outside the reach of Love. I found that epiphany very comforting.

      And, Bill, if you ever want to join me on the Christian Science discussion forum on Amazon, I’d love to see you there. I’m sort of rattling around in there – talking to myself – I am my own echo chamber. Having another poster to talk to now and then would be kind of fun. 🙂

      http://www.amazon.com/forum/christian%20science/ref=cm_cd_f_h_dp_t?_encoding=UTF8&cdAnchor=christian%20science&cdForum=Fx3VFOII36OUXI3

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